An oath to heal the conveniently sick - Paula Manoli-Gray




The Hippocratic Oath is 'one of the oldest binding documents in history', and one on which new doctors swear upon that they will heal the sick to the best of their ability. But it seems like is has been 'mislaid' in Larnaca and replaced with an oath to help the sick as long as it is not too inconvenient.

I am usually full of praise for our medical services, and have always found them - and the staff who carry them out - to have been thorough and efficient. Personally, I have (thankfully) not experienced bad medical service myself, but my faith in Larnaca doctors has been shaken to the core recently as a result of their treatment of a male relative of mine.

Said relative is in his twenties and was in a car accident last year whereby a courier van barged straight into a roundabout in Nicosia without looking and ploughed into the passenger side of his car. Had there been a passenger, there is a very good chance that there wouldn't be a passenger here today as the car was a write-off. My relative suffered whiplash.

Despite it being a clear case of the courier being at fault, the family have been struggling to take the case to court, and as this process has dragged on, my relative has been progressively getting worse. What started out as a little pain in his fingers and neck has spread from the fingers of each hand all the way up to both arms, across the shoulders and down the back. He is in constant pain, has trouble carrying out his desk job and can barely lift one of the arms up. It is apparent that he has some kind of nerve damage and will have to endure pain and treatments for some time, all because some irresponsible driver didn't look when driving, and now his equally irresponsible employer is simply not interested in what happened. It is no way for a young man in his prime to live.

But the problem with the Larnaca doctors is that although a young man is in debilitating pain and in need of treatment, he has actually been turned away by several doctors - both state and private. As soon as the doctors hear the words 'car crash' and 'court case' they drop him like a hot potato because they point blank 'do not want to get involved'. The thought of having to testify is just too inconvenient for them. One doctor actually put down his pen and paper and asked him to get out. The result is a delay in getting him properly diagnosed and started with treatment, which in turn has caused his condition to worsen. And because he cannot get a doctor's report to file with the court case, that is delayed too. The doctors' lack of ethics and desire to help is a brazen insult to the Hippocratic Oath.

Apparently, this is common knowledge. A lawyer relative told him that he would struggle to get a doctor to write a report, and others in similar situations have said that it was easier in the end to just give up on a court case and get treated. But with the loss of quality of life, the fees he has incurred trying out different medical solutions (including physiotherapy sessions), and the burden and strain this has placed on his life, why the heck should he not take the courier company to court?

At the time of writing, he has found a glimmer of hope at the town's only private hospital, where a doctor has been most accommodating. But why on earth should it have to take a year and a multitude of slamming doors to finally find one that is open? Hippocrates would turn in his grave.

First appeared in The Cyprus Weekly, 06/02/15

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A sick old man named ‘January’ - Paula Manoli-Gray




I am so glad to see the back of Mr January. It has been a horrible month of constant bugs and viruses for both my young children and I. And I know it has been the same for many families.

This time of year is just rife with nasties doing the rounds, from common colds and flu to stomach bugs and fevers, and if you have children then there is very little chance you will dodge the unwanted visitors.

Of course, none of the seasonal ailments are serious or life threatening (except in some rare cases). And yet, whilst we know that they are nothing in the greater scheme of things, they have the ability to completely and utterly disrupt our daily life to ridiculous proportions. The way these simple bugs can wreak so much havoc is terrifying, and it always makes me feel so fallible.

It seems that no matter how much I try to defend my family's health and immune system, we still manage to contract something. Apparently, even healthy people should have one or two colds a year and that is perfectly normal, but when you are dealing with sick children is it an absolute nightmare. And as tempting as it is to lock your kids up so that they do not come into contact with anyone else's germs, you just can't do it. And so you spend the winter spraying noses, rubbing eucalyptus on chests, dishing out elderberry extract and hoping and praying you don't get more than one round of a vomit and diarrhoea bug – the washing machine simply cannot handle it!

But for me, that is preferable to a superficial quick-fix of medicating for seasonal illness. The amount of medications that some people shovel down their throats – and those of their children – without a second thought is also terrifying. As inconvenient as it is for your child to have a fever or a cough, it is their body's way of fighting an invader, and when you take away their right to fight it, then you ultimately weaken their ability to do so. And whilst no one can afford to be ill, it is also a well-known fact that there is no cure for these seasonal ailments – all any medication will do is ease the symptoms. There are certain friends and family who think I am a stubborn hippy to have this attitude, but I was vindicated this week…

…I have personally been ill since the beginning of January and have been trying to let it work its course. Towards the end of the month, I had to admit defeat; whatever I have was just not shifting and it was making me miserable, weak, tired and unsociable. So I relented and went to the chemist and purchased a pack of brand name, over-the-counter sinus and cold tablets and a rather ominous cough syrup, which is so strong you only need to take it once every 12 hours.
I took the tablets for just one day before consulting the chemist about whether the heart palpitations, insomnia and loss of appetite were okay as side affects. Turns out I have a reaction to pseudoephedrine. The syrup gave me gastro irritation. As far as I am concerned, the potential side affects of standard cough, cold and flu remedies are simply not worth it, I would rather be ill for two months and heal naturally than flood my body with chemicals that are actually doing me more harm than good.

So, good riddance to Mr January and fingers crossed that Mr February is not as sickly, although on the plus side, Mr January is very good at helping us undergo a forced detox after the excesses of Christmas!

First appeared in The Cyprus Weekly, 30/01/15



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